You have some nerve

This should be a quick one. If you take this personally, you must see yourself in it. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE AND YOUR OPINIONS!

Words are POWERFUL. Think about what you say and how you are putting your words together. I am admittedly politically incorrect and comfortable with that. But I know that I have to be prepared with what may come with that. If you are rude and nasty or just fly off at the mouth without thinking, be prepared to catch the hell that comes with it. Don't try to stomp with the big dogs if you still eatin' puppy chow. Also, stop trying to bait people, just come out with it. Everybody knows what you are doing, just come out with it already!

For those folks giving advice about hair, looks, beauty, etc.....Sit yo silly ass down if you are not together or getting it together. Nobody wants your unsolicited opinion unless it's to know what NOT to do. You trying to tell me what to do with my hair when it looks like your ish is so dry you are about to start a brush fire. When you go to the beach, you come equipped with your own inner tube but you want to tell somebody else how to eat or what is healthy or how to exercise.

Just some food for thought...carry on.

News, Updates and Seasons Greetings

Hello folks!
Happy Holidays! I hope that you and yours will be blessed and safe during this holiday season. Sorry I haven't been updating much, but I am on top of it now. I am so excited because I am working on a few new things and when it's time, you guys will be the first to know. Just know that 2008 will be the YEAR OF THE RABBIT!

I'd love to have more of your questions, comments and feedback. What topics would you like to see discussed? Anything you need answered? Please e-mail me at askjessicarabbit.com


Lastly, some of you know that I have a message board. I am looking to add new members and update it. I want it to really grow. So please visit, join post and contribute: www.grownandsexyboard.com. It's pretty basic as of now but as we grow, so will the board layout/features. Like the name says, it's grown and sexy so we discuss any and everything. Also, let me know if there are any forums or things that you want to see there.

Thank you for supporting me and praying for me and I will continue to do the same for you.

Daddy's Little Girl,
Jessica Rabbit

Do I stay or do I go?

Dear JR,

I need some relationship advice. I have been with my guy for 4 years- we met right after college. He is a wonderful person and we have both grown together in so many ways. We have discussed marriage and both of us want to take that next step. However, he is looking for a better-paying job and I will be relocating 1,300 miles away in a week for my job (transfer). He has expressed interest in moving to another state too but says he can't and we won't live together until he has my ring.

Would you stick around? Hope he gets a better job in that state? How would you try to keep the rlshp together long distance.

Thanks in advance.


A relationship takes two people. You both would need to work at it. You have an opportunity and you are taking it. He is looking for a better opportunity and that may be found with relocating. He claims he may be willing to relocate, you need to really discuss this. YOU ARE leaving to improve yourself. How much is this relationship worth to each of you? Is it worth working on? Four years is a long time and if you are truly serious, sacrifices need to be made. It's not fair to hold you back professionally and personally when he has said he would consider moving. You can keep the relationship going with open communication, trips, emails, little surprises...any and everything. But I will not lie to you. It takes work and things will not be easy. Tell him to pack his raggedy duffle bag and relocate before he loses the best thing that ever happened to him! (Just joking, don't scare the man off) Hope this helps and feel free to follow up.